1 Timothy 5:6 – Taking God at His Word

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But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives.

Summary: Paul’s words in this passage bring to mind the parable of the Prodigal Son.   

This verse is profoundly blunt and deadly serious. 

Over the centuries since Paul wrote his epistles, people have wrestled with his words, trying to understand what he meant. The challenge Paul presents us with in this verse is at or near the heart of many theological discussions and theories. 

This author takes the view that the Bible is God’s message to humanity, crafted over centuries, primarily by the descendants of Abraham, a people chosen by God specifically to shepherd his Word for the peoples of the world. 

How did God manage to do this? 

When asked this question, I defer to Isaiah 55:9 — 

“As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways [i.e., God’s ways] higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

In short, some things are beyond our understanding. 

At any rate, I am content to take God’s Word for it: God’s Word is God’s Word (2 Timothy 3:15-17). When Paul writes, “But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives,” I hear God speaking. 

So what does he mean? Why does God’s Word have this ominous message in it? 

As I think about this, my mind is drawn back to Jesus’ explanation of the tares (a.k.a. “weeds”) and the wheat (Matthew 13:36-43). In his explanation, Jesus says that he is the one who “sowed the good seed” and the devil is the one who sowed the “weeds.” 

He doesn’t say when this sowing happens, but from God’s point of view, the “when” doesn’t really matter (Psalm 90:4). Our lifetimes are a matter of minutes or seconds in God’s sight, so it is not a question of God having to wait to see what happens; he knows. 

When God’s Word says, “But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives,” it echoes the parable of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15:11-32). When the son leaves home to live for pleasure, his father says he was “dead” (v 24). When the son returns repentant, the father says he is now “alive” (v 32). 

Paul’s words are a stark warning to anyone who puts pleasure before God. We do well if we acknowledge God’s wisdom and warning. 

Application: Live for God, not self-pleasure.  

Food for Thought: What does it mean to be “dead” while we are still alive?

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1 Timothy 5:5 – Real Need

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The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help.

Summary: Paul is giving instructions to Timothy regarding a special case of giving — making a commitment to support someone for the rest of their life.   

In this passage, Paul gives us three tests to be used in determining who is “really in need.” Remember, we are not talking about a one-time handout. A ‘widow in need’ needs help for the rest of her life. That is a big commitment and one worthy of caution before making it. 

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1 Timothy 5:4 – True Religion

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But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God. 

Summary: True religion begins at home.   

Caring for family is one of the great blessings of life. It is also one of the great challenges! Interestingly, putting our religion into practice is a very similar challenge. 

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1 Timothy 5:2a – In Search of Purity

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…older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters, with absolute purity.

Summary: Paul’s words challenge men to treat women with purity, echoing the words of the Old Testament laws.  

Paul’s instructions to Timothy provide clear guidance on how to treat people. Not only people in church, but all people. In this passage, Paul once again instructs Timothy about those older and younger than he is. This time, the focus is on women. 

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1 Timothy 5:1b – Little Brother

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Treat younger men as brothers…

Summary: Paul’s instruction to Timothy about younger men is part of our Lord’s plan for setting things right in the world.   

Life is hard without Jesus. 

I remember, when I was very young, hearing someone say, “Too bad life doesn’t come with an instruction manual!” It was a comment that seemed to capture all the confusion of life’s many decisions and turning points. 

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1 Timothy 5:1a – For Father’s Sake

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Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father.

Summary: Paul gives Timothy specific instructions for correcting the behavior of older men.   

Old men hate to be rebuked, especially “harshly”!

Let’s face it, “old men” have been around for a while. They know things. Even if the things they know are not useful anymore, they still know things simply because they have survived as long as they have. 

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1 Timothy 4:16b – The Test of Fire

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Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.

Summary: Once again, Paul challenges us to dive into the Greek to understand what he is trying to tell us.   

In the last meditation, “1 Timothy 4:16a – Me, Myself, and I,” we looked at Paul’s admonition to Timothy to “Watch your life and doctrine closely.” Paul wasn’t reprimanding Timothy in any way, but was instead encouraging and cautioning him as one worker does to a co-worker. 

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