Teach the older men to be … temperate …
Summary: God made wine. Then he told man to be careful using it. Paul says this is especially important for an overseer.
What was God thinking when he made alcohol? Is wine a good thing or a bad thing? Paul says that older men should be taught to be temperate. The word “temperate,” is translated from the Greek word, nēphalios. This word is also translated as “sober” or “clear-minded.” Is Paul saying that an overseer should not drink wine?
One school of thought on this is that overseers or leaders, in general, should not touch any wine. This is not a bad approach. It avoids the question, “How much is too much?”
When we are talking about wine, this question is important. Alcohol can shut down the part of the brain that exercises good judgment. The first thing to go is the ability to know how much wine is enough. After that, there are a series of stages where a person’s judgment becomes ever more impaired. But temperate does not mean to abstain.
So what does Paul mean?
Some translations use phrases like “be watchful” or “be self-controlled.” If we put all these definitions together we might come up with something like this:
Teach the older men to be self-controlled, meaning they must be watchful of how they use wine so that they are temperate in its use. They should at all times remain sober and clear-minded.
This is not about impressing others. If something can be misconstrued it will be. Jesus laments the hypocrisy of man when he says, “For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, ‘He has a demon.’ The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, ‘Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and sinners.’ But wisdom is proved right by her deeds.” (Matthew 11: 18-19)
In his letter to the Corinthians, Paul expands on this topic. He is talking about food offered to idols, but the principle he offers applies to wine as well.
“Be careful, however, that the exercise of your rights does not become a stumbling block to the weak. For if someone with a weak conscience sees you, with all your knowledge, eating in an idol’s temple, won’t that person be emboldened to eat what is sacrificed to idols? So this weak brother or sister, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge. When you sin against them in this way and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ. Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother or sister to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause them to fall.” (1 Corinthians 8: 9-13)
In light of this instruction from Paul, it makes sense to abstain. That said, whether one abstains or drinks in moderation, Paul insists that the one responsible for holding firmly to the trustworthy message (Titus 1:9) be self-controlled and clear-minded at all times.
Application: Strive for the same level of self-control that is required for an overseer.
Food for Thought: How does even a little intemperance affect a person’s testimony for Jesus?
Usually when someone demonstrates intemperance (they don’t drink in moderation but get drunk) they say or do something that does not reflect well on their faith in Christ. It offsets self control and the Holy Spirit’s guidance is ignored or subdued. It leaves us with a moment that becomes a bad testimony that needs to be overcome. It also becomes a bad example for those in the faith who may already have temptations in this arena.
Thanks, Rich.
What you have shared is an important truth. We need to see ourselves as others see us to appreciate the impact our actions have.
How does even a little intemperance affect a person’s testimony for Jesus?
We know Christ turned water into wine and on occasion drank wine. We know Paul told Timothy to drink a little wine to settle his stomach. We also know, as christians we are to die to self, exercise self-control as we allow Christ to live in us, be seen in us and minister to others by serving them through us.
Galatians 2:20, 2 Timothy 1:7, Matthew 20:28
What we never know is the individual struggles of those around us. Who is struggling with conviction from the Holy Spirit, watching our actions which could effect their decision. Who is a christian struggling with an addiction. Who is a non-believer looking for validation that christians are all hypocrites.
We have been saved from sin, set free from all past, present and future sin, filled with the power of the Holy Spirit, to glorify God for however long He has determined to leave us on this earth. We are free to do whatever we want, but not everything glorifies God. For that reason we are called to focus on the great truths of Christ who paid the price for our sins, gives us the freedom we enjoy, and now seeks to minister to others through us. As Christ came to earth to minister to us, we join others where they are and purposely avoid any conduct that may have a negative effect on their pursuit of truth or their walk with God.
1 Corinthians 10:23, Philippians 4:8,1 Corinthians 9:22, Romans 4:21
Thank you, Ron.
Well said!
Another thing to add is how or body’s are temples. And I need to remember that with more than alcohol. Medications can be something that can keep you from having a sober mind.
That is correct. Sometimes the absence of medication can do the same thing. We need to be patient with ourselves and trust in God. While we are doing that it is helpful to be in God’s Word. 🙂