1 Timothy 6:11 (Part 6) – Gentleness

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But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. 

Summary: Gentleness is not the same as weakness.   

The concept of gentleness is a tough one to translate from Greek. Paul used the word “praotēs,” which implies humility.* What is a bit confusing is that earlier Paul was telling Timothy to “command certain people” and “command and teach these things.” 

How is he supposed to “command” people on one hand, and be “humble” on the other? 

One of the amazing things about the Bible is that there are so many examples like this one, where two seeming contradictory things are both true. 

On the one hand, commanding people doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to be rude. It is entirely possible to be firm and at the same time meek. 

On the other hand, being gentle doesn’t equate to being milquetoast. A gentle person can still be firm. 

Gentleness, then, is not weakness. It doesn’t mean we stand down when things don’t go God’s way. 

Jesus is a good example. 

People like to point to Jesus clearing the temple courtyard with a whip as a picture of “angry Jesus.” But the Bible does not say he was angry. After clearing the temple courts, John writes: 

“His disciples remembered that it is written: ‘Zeal for your house will consume me.’” (John 2:17)

Jesus was zealous for his Father’s house. 

Was he gentle? 

By God’s standards, yes. He could have had the ground open up as in the days of Korah† and swallow all the vendors and money changers, but he didn’t. 

Compared to what he could have done, he was being very gentle. 

Application: Remember, when looking to Jesus as an example, we are not God.  

Food for Thought: How does gentleness affect conflict in the church? 

*”G4236 – praotēs – Strong’s Greek Lexicon (NIV).” Blue Letter Bible. Web. 27 Jul, 2026. <https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4236/niv/mgnt/0-1/>.

† Numbers 16

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1 Timothy 3:2c – Temperament 

Now the overseer is to be … temperate…

Summary: As we continue examining Paul’s criteria for an overseer, we discover that there is a method to Paul’s list of things to look for in an overseer.   

The next word in Paul’s job description for an overseer is “temperate.” 

To be more accurate, the English translation in the NIV uses the word “temperate” for the word Paul used, which is “nēpháleos.” “Nēpháleos” is a Greek word that means “sober” in the sense of being circumspect.* However, it can also mean “abstaining from wine,” or at least from its “immoderate use.”†

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Philippians 4:5a – More Than Human

Let your gentleness be evident to all.

Summary: In this passage, Paul makes a simple suggestion. But is it just a suggestion?   

As Paul brings his letter to the Philippians to a close, he begins Chapter Four with a plea to “stand firm in the Lord.” He then adds a note to stand firm “in this way.” “This way” turned out to mean adhering to the true Gospel, putting our confidence in Jesus, valuing Christ above all else, pressing on, striving for maturity in faith, focusing on the godly, and remembering we are citizens of heaven.*

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